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Write It On My Heart

Unseen Spirit

I WAS ON THE ISLAND of TRINIDAD IN 1975, in the jungle preaching to a small group of hungry aboriginal Christians in a thatched-roof church; about 75 indigenous people and another 30 or so missionaries.  Toward the end of my sermon as I made the invitation to accept Christ as personal Savior, an angry young man,  son of a missionary,  jumped up angrily yelling running toward me.

The muscular young man screamed at me as he hurled his fist at my face. I was so shocked- actually stunned  – I had no time to protect myself.  I watched as his huge fist propelled with lightning speed to my face. Shockingly, it didn’t matter.  His fighter’s fist seemed to miraculously disappear. How could this happen?  He followed through again.  It was as though an unseen, supernatural being of some sort [perhaps an angel of God] made his fist disappear into a nonhuman nothingness.

Immediately, his dad jumped from his seat trying to pull him away.  The angry young man turned quickly and with a clenched fist hit his father so hard that blood splattered all over those nearby. For over 20 minutes they fought, knocking chairs over, wrestling as though they were MMA fighters.  People were crying and praying as the huge men fought; the father trying to protect himself and others from his son.

I made an urgent invitation for those who wanted to follow Christ should come forward. The blessed Holy Spirit was there. So was an evil demonic unseen spirit! There are the same unclean spirits today spoken of in the Bible.

Be careful, my friend. You cannot violate the Holy Spirit!

“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:”

‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭5:8‬ ‭(kjv)

Write It On My Heart

HONOR CAREGIVERS

RONNIE MILSAP SANG, “Please don’t tell me how the story ends.”  It’s about the end of a love affair,  but one of the lines caught my attention when THINKING OF CAREGIVERS.  It says,

“Just let me go on loving and believing – ‘till it’s over.

Please don’t tell me how the story ends.”

Children of the elderly or spouses, are susceptible to the pathology of depression, guilt, anger, fatigue, arguing, insomnia, anxiety, resentment and exhaustion when acting as CAREGIVER.  In fact, being in the assisted living business, it has been necessary for my administrator to ask a caregiver to take some time off due to their being overwhelmed.  The constant drip-drip of demands  and activities of daily living such as toileting, dressing, eating, ambulating, medication, etc., start to bring on frustration exhibited by impatience and yelling at the patient.

As a general rule, caregivers don’t recognize their mental and emotional anguish. The sad thing is that in many cases the caregiver will take on the symptoms of the person they are caring for – even death.  Or, they start to neglect their own care and health.

Caregivers are givers and hesitate to admit their exasperation and guilt.  Little by little a dark resentment gathers steam in their heart and mind.  Too often they will say, “I don’t know if there is a God, but if there is, he sure doesn’t know what I’m going through!”

To caregivers I say, “if you really, really want to, you could find a way to take a day or two off – frequently! You may need sleep. You may need to eat a quiet, healthful meal with someone.  You may need to talk with a friend. Mothers of small children should talk with an adult … frequently. Seeking out professional help should be considered.”

YES. YOU. CAN!   If you want to.

Here are seven things to think about from the pen of Paul.

“(1) Don’t worry about anything; (2) instead pray about everything.

(3) Tell God what you need,

(4) thank him for all he has done.  (5) Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand.

(6) His peace will guard your hearts and minds

(7) as you live in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7    🎼🎶🎹

“Does Jesus care when my heart is pained

Too deeply for mirth or song,

As the burdens press, and the cares distress,

And the way grows weary and long?

“Oh, yes, He cares, I know He cares,

His heart is touched with my grief;

When the days are weary, the long nights dreary,

I know my Savior cares.”

(Frank E. Graef)

“God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have …  plenty left over to share with others.”

2 Corinthians 9:8 (nlt)

CAREGIVERS ARE GOD’S HELPERS AND NEED OUR LOVE AND SUPPORT!